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Learn to forgive

For many people it is hard to forgive others for everything they have done. It is even challenging. But at the same time it is difficult indeed to live loathing someone deeply for the mistakes he or she has made. I know myself how difficult it might be. But you need to learn to forgive. Strangely enough but ability to forgive other people depends on some factors. You may be angry with someone who has done nothing special to you. At the same time you may forgive a person who has done something more serious only because he is remorseful of it. So usually we are able to forgive others only because they care and regret about their mistakes. But it is difficult to forgive a person who doesn’t care much about your feelings. So as the rule we decide whom to forgive and whom not to. It may seem strange but it is reasonable for some people. You may give a second chance to your friend or to your husband who has cheated on you. These people are important to you. And the only possible way to stay with them is to forgive them. They are an important part of your life. Just remember about it.

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How to survive the divorce

Going through the divorce is one of the hardest things one may face. Even if all the love has gone away, and even if you know you are better off without him, breaking up is still painful. Maybe being together becomes kind of a habit and you need to put a lot of effort in quitting it. And all the memories can’t be easily erased from your mind. When things don’t work out we all get upset or even angry. It is a normal reaction to breaking up, because both of you expected something more. And all the memories, laughter and caring seems to be less meaningful than you wanted them to be. It hurts.

I’ve never been married, but have been in a long term relationship that didn’t end well. And I want to share my experience with you, I don’t know if it helps if you were married for ten years and broke up, then maybe my advice (and advice of my friends who had been in a similar situation) will seem silly. But I do hope it helps a little.

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